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Wednesday, June 9, 2010

THE FRIENDSHIP BASKET




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People unfortunately fill their days with unnecessary and meaningless tasks and conversations that waste time and energy, and they walk away feeling drained and flat. Look back on your day, now and again, and say,' Did I really need to do that, and what did I achieve'. If I had been more organised, could I have saved some time to do the things I really want to do.
The next time you spend an hour on the phone talking about life and off loading to someone,ask yourself, am I really getting anything out of this,and is this person lifting me up or dragging me down?
We all have a story and we all have problems.Thats life! Choose your 'real' friends wisely. Are they loyal and are we both getting something from this friendship? If not,go into your friendship basket and throw one out, and put another one in! The basket should always be full of good loyal and truthworthy friends who you love,respect and wish only the best for.
Dont waste your time and energy on anything less. If that means less friends,then so be it. At least you'll have more head space to think of more important issues.
Dont take on other people's problems that you just cant fix. Be selfish with your time and dont feel guilty about it. There is only so much you can do and say before you just need to let it go.. Everyone has their own path to go on. Remember to stay on yours!!
Stop worrying about what other people think.The day you do that, will be the day you see a change in how YOU think.People love to be judgemental. The day I meet a perfect person,I'II let you know!! Start thinking about whats important to you and what makes you happy.
Catch yourself out making excuses during your day for not saying or doing something you want to ,or should do. You dont see them as excuses anymore but just a way of life!
If this is making sense to you, then start changing the way you think and do things.Say it how it is, or dont say it at all. Time is precious and life is busy, but its up to you how you choose to live it.Respect other peoples choices on how they choose to live as well. Dont judge, because you dont understand! Put your energy into caring and listening to people you want to, doing what you think is right, and making time for things that are important to you.
Stop,sit and think about what you want out of life.Thats important!

written by ktighe

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